Hospitality based what you serve will come up lacking. Hospitality based on whom you serve will be hit or miss depending on your guest. Hospitality done to make you feel good about yourself will leave a void. So the real question is why. 1 Peter 4:11 answers:
—in order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ. (ESV)
Be it a cookout or a long lost friend passing through town, let us keep the goal in mind.