I have curly hair. It's been coming for the last few years... and I decided to stop trying to fight it - and learn how to "deal" with it. If you don't have it - you want it, people pay big bucks for it - I know, I know... but ... I've just had to learn how to live well with it... what products to use, how to dry it, how often it needs cutting.
I think it's the same thing with grace. We have to learn how to give and take it... how to give it to ourselves.
So. Let's just admit it and live it to its fullest!